YO DIVAWITCH! SCREW YOU!

To the douchebag at Heaven(nightclub) that made me feel like a second-class human being ...

SCREW YOU!

I hate to be made to feel like scum, and even with a variety of racist remarks I had thrown at me during my life, I never felt that way ... up until this past weekend. 

It was a bff's birthday and when you are young and living in the city, what better way to celebrate than eating (pigging) out and hitting a nightclub right? Well that is exactly what we did and of we went to Heaven (a superclub, caters mostly to the gay market - but not exclusively) ... or so I thought.

Now I know the gay community get discriminated against left, right and centre but I always saw people ... as people - at the end of the day when we get hurt we all feel the same pain and we all bleed the same.

I was literally on a complete but totally natural high, I was with friends and had a few jokes with security (they are great people's) until this particular asshole decided to open his mouth. That is probably why this negative experience really hacked me off.

There I was minding my own having a good time until divabitch decided he had to pick a bone with me.

Looking me dead in the face and banging on about how he couldn't stand straight people, they made him sick and who did I think I was to invade his space (even though he was the one in my space getting all confrontational) and so forth.

I'm not going to lie - it affected me and instantly I felt like a germy second-rate person ... simply for existing.

WTF!

That is beyond uncool.

I literally felt as though he had marched over and slapped me across the face.

Now I know that living in a 'straight man's world' is hard and because of that if you aren't straight, life may throw you one too many lemons but not every straight person is an asshole, some of the most important people in my life are gay and as far as I'm concerned it never was a barrier to how I see or relate to them.

But now I feel that view has been marred by divawitch's outburst - gay people are f*@king mean!

It's ironic because I thought that gay communities were all about love without bounderies, accepting people for who and what they are but what I am starting to see is, that community appears to be one of the most judgemental ones out there with an abundance of social stratification within itself. It's this margin of the bitter few that distorts how the gay community is perceived by everybody else.

And once again to divawitch ...

... I'll be surrounded by better people than you (whether straight or gay), my breasts (which you partially aimed your rant towards) will always be bigger than yours, I'm clearly happier than you and I'll always be prettier than you!

[OH YES I WENT THERE]

Now take your miserable venom and choke on it - (I feel soooo much better)

P.S.
Whether you are gay or not, I still love you but I'm not feeling any pride for the community at the moment but the love will return once the injury to my pride and self-esteem has subsided. I am disappointed.